I was sick of affairs. I hated that couples had to experience them. I hated that I knew all the steps every couple would have to take yet it was brand new and horrible to every single one of them.
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I was sick of affairs. I hated that couples had to experience them. I hated that I knew all the steps every couple would have to take yet it was brand new and horrible to every single one of them.
Research shows that depending upon the program you choose, preventative education or premarital counseling can help your relationship stay together, on average, 3-8 years longer than couples who did nothing.
One thing that happens, however, is that Valentine’s Day sometimes also brings to the front of our relationship things that aren’t going so well. This is because, for some, the thought or events surrounding the season inevitably point them back toward their own lives.
Couples do this. People do this. Someone drops the “bait,” another begins to follow the trail and before they know it they’re both stuck in dark and sticky fight they can’t leave.
Today I’m going to share a resource that I seem to use at least once or twice per year because some couples are visual learners. The lesson for them with this tool is understanding the difference between “unhealthy dependence” versus “healthy interdependence.”